Joy in the morning, Joy through the night.

My daughter will be one year old in exactly two weeks.

And she doesn't sleep through the night.

Yes, that's right. Every single night for the past year, I have been awake multiple times. Nursing, rocking, singing, patting her bottom, nursing again, shhhh-ing, changing diapers, kissing, nursing.

And praying.

Praying over this sweet soul laying in my arms. Praying to feel rested when the sun finally rises and my day begins. Praying for a kind a joyful heart. Praying that, maybe tomorrow night, she'll sleep through the night.

But that last prayer is a selfish one.

Who am I to assume that "she should be old enough..." that "she really doesn't need anything this late" or that "it's just a bad habit"??

Why do I put my own words and needs into a little girl who can't communicate her needs, fears, desires and emotions all by herself?

Because I am selfish.

I want to feel well-rested. I want to be energized and positive. I want to look awake and fresh and pretty. I want to sleep, really truly sleep so hard and not be bothered until I wake up, on my own.

I read books and I talk to other Mama's with babies who are significantly younger than Addi, sleeping through the night, or who only wake once to nurse.

...And I get jealous, real fast. I get bitter and my heart starts complaining. I start wishing for something that somebody else has.

Oh, I am a sinner.

A middle-of-the-night-resentful-sinner.

And I need Jesus.

I need Him when I lay down at night, looking at the clock and knowing that I will be awake in just a few hours.

I need Him when I am waken up by the cry of a child. A child that He loves even more than I do.

I need Him as I nurse and rock, nurse and rock, and when the familiar complaining starts in my head.

I need Him when satan starts speaking to my heart. Speaking ungratefulness, speaking selfishness, speaking lies.

I need Him when the sun rises and the birds are singing His praise, but I am not.

I need Him every moment of the day, when I fight to bite my tongue of my initial thoughts, because of my grumpiness.

I need Him when I speak to my husband, and as I try to teach Love and Peace to my daughter.

No, I don't get the sleep that I need, and I honestly don't know when or if there will be a night that I do. But I choose not to focus on that.

I will focus on the precious gift that I have been given. Sweet moments alone with a baby whom I do not deserve. A baby who needs her Mama.

And yes, I will mess up and become selfish once more. But I have Jesus.

He brings Joy in the morning.

Joy through my tired eyes, and Joy through this tiny soul sleeping next to me.